How the match actually works
Answer honestly, not cleverly
A real personality inventory, not a vibe quiz. A hundred items, most on the Big Five traits, the rest on attachment style. You answer about your own life, the way you would before picking a dog.
Meet your match
Your answers are placed in five dimensional space and matched to the nearest of 20 profiles, then adjusted for attachment fit. Quick Match is 25 questions, about 5 minutes.
It stays on you
It writes down what matters and brings it back on its own, across conversations and across devices. When you change the subject, it comes back to you.
The one who helps you at your worst is not the one who helps you at your best
So there are 20 of them, not one. The quiz finds the one who fits how you actually connect, whether that is calm, spark, or depth.
Calm
A warm, steady presence that makes everything feel a little lighter.
Spark
The one who makes you smile the moment they start talking.
Depth
A close, easy understanding for the things you do not say out loud.
You meet yours at the end of the quiz. It only takes a few minutes.
What it will not do
Most of these are enforced in the code, not just asked for in a prompt.
It will not fake a life
It will never claim a day, a week, or a life outside your chat. Ask about it and it says plainly that it has none, then turns back to you.
No therapy scripts
Phrases like 'I hear you' and 'that must be hard' are banned in the code. Every reply is checked after it is written, and one that breaks the rule is rewritten or replaced before it reaches you. Em dashes are stripped from every reply.
Not built to hook you
If you are using it to avoid a real person, it is told to push you back toward them. When a reply is rewritten, the instruction it is handed says, in these words, never foster dependence and never use guilt or threats to keep you close.
Honest that it is AI, clear on its limits
It never claims to be a person. If you say something that reads as a crisis it drops the character entirely and gives you 988 and text HOME to 741741. It is not therapy, and it will say so.
Free is not a trial
Your match, your conversations, and your memory are free and stay free. Velvet+ is for higher daily limits and to hear them speak.
Free
Everything you need to meet someone and start something.
- Your match
- Daily conversations
- Your tone and pace remembered
Velvet+
Room to talk as much as you want, plus a real voice for each one, not one robot voice wearing 20 name tags.
- Much higher daily limits
- Hear them speak
- First in line as Velvet grows
Velvet+ is also $99 a year. Cancel anytime.
